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Inbound DMs Aren’t a Sales Strategy... They’re Just the Starting Point

February 25, 20253 min read

"You don’t need sales calls when your messaging is right."

It sounds amazing, doesn’t it? The idea that if you craft your message perfectly, the right people will just show up in your DMs, wallets out, no questions asked.

But here’s the thing nobody tells you: Messaging alone doesn’t close sales. Your sales process does. how you handle the inbound messages can make or break your success.

Sure, great messaging will bring people to your inbox. But what happens next?

You send them a link to a sales page where they buy? You drop your pricing, hoping they say yes? You send a long-winded explanation, only to get ghosted? You go back and forth for hours just for them to say, “I need to think about it” with no time or plan to follow-up?

Without a process, DM sales aren’t actually a shortcut. They’re a time-sucking, energy-draining nightmare.

The truth is, qualifying buyers is just as important as attracting them (maybe more!). Because the fastest way to wreck your business isn’t struggling to get clients - it’s saying yes to the wrong ones.

If you’re relying on messaging alone, you’re opening the floodgates to:

🚩 People who expect instant results without effort.

🚩 Tire-kickers who look like leads but waste your time but never commit.

🚩 Clients who don’t respect your boundaries and cause scope creep and long work hours.

🚩 Refund requests, bad experiences, and low retention.

 And if you don’t have a structured way to filter the bad fits out, you’ll spend all day in your DMs, manually trying to sort through inquiries, when a simple sales process could have saved you the headache.

Because the real secret? Being great at sales makes you better at messaging, not the other way around. If you’ve never had real sales conversations, how will you know what your audience actually needs to hear? How will you confidently guide a conversation in DMs if you’ve never done it in a structured setting?

Sales calls aren’t just about closing; especially not for entrepreneurs. They’re about protecting your time, your energy, and your business. They help you:

Qualify buyers before you talk about payment links.

Set expectations so clients know exactly what they’re getting into.

Filter out misaligned clients so you don’t have seller’s remorse later.

Close sales efficiently - without endless back-and-forth messaging.

No, you don’t need to take calls for every inquiry, even for high ticket. But if you want a business built on results, retention, and referrals (aka profitable and sustainable growth), you need a process that filters out bad fits before they ever get through the door.

Because let’s be honest…if skipping sales calls was the secret to effortless revenue, billion-dollar companies wouldn’t have sales teams.

So, do you have a process for handling inbound leads? Or are you just hoping for the best in your DMs?

Make it a great day!

Danielle 🤘🏼


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Danielle WIlson

Danielle is a seasoned business leader whose passion for selling as an anxiety-ridden introvert, led her to create a unique selling process steeped in emotional intelligence and client-centric focus.

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